Respect the NOW

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Respect the NOWWhile driving home from work this week, I decided to call one of my dearest friends because I was having one of those days. I called but he did not answer and I decided not to leave a message. To my surprise he called back within 5 minutes and we began to chat. I love our conversations because we talk about everything…and I mean everything! He started talking about a mutual friend and his long-term relationship that was going on sixteen years. I made a reference to his relationship and said that soon his would relationship would last that long. He laughed and mentioned some advice that was given to him a few years ago. “You need to stop worrying about the future trying to make your relationship last forever. If you put that energy into making things right for right now, the rest of it will be fine. You got to focus on making every day great and something you want to stick around for.”

As we continued to talk, I mentioned that statement does not just apply to relationships but all parts of life. I arrived at home, laid across my bed and started asking myself a few questions: Why are we so eager to get to the future when we haven’t perfected the present? Why do we think the future will always be better? Why is it so hard to live in the present and respect the now? What happened to taking one day at a time? Why do we always think the grass is greener on the other side?

Let’s be honest, many of us have not perfected this part of life. We leave one relationship thinking the next man or woman will treat us better, we leave one job for a higher salary but not realizing it comes with more headaches and responsibilities, and the list goes on!

I may not have all the answers but what I have learned over the years is that I cannot control the past or forecast the future; what I can do is make the present meaningful and walk in what God is doing for me at this moment.  As long as I am respecting and living in the NOW, I am open to receive the lessons and the blessings that God has in store for me. Every person or situation will bring different things into my life but I have to decide (at the moment) what I will or will not allow to occupy my thoughts, space or time. My prayer is to always get the lesson and move forward and not to make the same mistake again.

What is holding  you back from living in the present?

Please share your feelings/comments. We are all in this together!

 

Live in the now, the present moment is all that there is” ~ Russell Simmons

 

6 thoughts on “Respect the NOW

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  2. I love this and the advice your friend gave you. I agree that so often we seem to think (feel) that all things must last forever in order to be deemed “successful”. We get/have things for as long as we need them then they are released. or we release them. Happiness happens in the now! Keep up the good work of inspiring…..you are good at it! 😉

    1. Thanks Lori! I agree with you that forever does not always need to equal success. Most of the time its about getting the lesson, sharing waht you learned and moving on. Its all about how we look at things. Have a great day and thanks for reading!

    1. Thanks so much Lady L!! It is always easy for us to focus on tomorrow when we are having a bad day, etc. But it is in the moments when we should stop, breathe, take a minute and ask for the lesson in the NOW! Once we do that we will be better prepared for tomorrow! Thanks for your support!!

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